Online – 3 hour Interactive Workshop

10 April, 2021

Why We Self-Sabotage and How To Eliminate It

Gene Monterastelli has worked with clients for more than a decade helping them to eliminate self-sabotage so that they can take the actions they want to truly transform their lives.

Through this work Gene has come to realise that there are four reasons why we self-sabotage. In this online 3 hour interactive workshop we will explore what these four reasons are. We will also examine the practical and emotional components of each of these reasons.

Gene will then share with you the tool he uses daily with his clients to figure out exactly which of the four reasons that are in the way of you taking action, what is the underlying limiting belief, and how to clear these beliefs.

He will also share with you the tool that he teaches his clients to clear self-sabotage on their own that they actually do between sessions, in addition to;

✅ The 4 reasons why we don’t take action
✅ The practical and emotional motivators to these reasons
✅ How to uncover the hidden root cause of the sabotaging behaviour
✅ How to clear these root causes

By attending this workshop, you will gain deep insights personally in addition to the multitude of strategies Gene will share with you. These strategies will support you in your life or, if you are a coach or therapist, will assist clients.

Special guest, Dr Peta Stapleton, world renowned EFT researcher, will moderate the workshop with live Q & A.



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  • Event recording
  • Handouts
  • Certificate of Attendance for professional development hours.


  • $40 for those financially impacted by COVID
  • $60 for full time students
  • $95 EARLY BIRD (closes 15th March, 2021)
  • $125 from 16th March, 2021

NOTE: If you’re unable to join us live, as long as you’re registered you will receive the inclusions.

By attending this event, you’re also supporting the work of the Mind Heart Connect Foundation.

Bio: Gene Monterastelli is a Brooklyn, NY based practitioner with a background in hypnotism, NLP, guided imagery, parts work, and meridian based tapping protocols (including EFT). He is the host of the Tapping Q & A Podcast and the editor of He helps his clients through one-on-one coaching and group programs to eliminate self-sabotage so that they can take the most important actions first everyday. He loves to train practitioners in the art of delivery so that they can get more out of the tapping practice with their clients. Gene has a very special place in his practice for family who have a child who has been diagnosed on the autism spectrum.

For more info on Gene:

Spa for the Soul Immersion Retreat with Dr Lori Leyden

2022/2023 – Date to be advised – Northern Rivers region of New South Wales

Outrageous Grace: Activating the Alchemy of Your Heart to Heal Yourself, Our Children and Our World with The Grace Process & EFT/Tapping

This is your opportunity to spend 5 days with Dr Leyden for this residential retreat in the northern rivers region of New South Wales!

As the Grace Process resonance expands, the opportunity for these 5 sacred days together has emerged, allowing us to immerse in the process. Staying on site, we’ll share meals, love and laughter throughout the weekend. This is a rare opportunity to reconnect with your true self in an intimate and supportive environment.

Lori will lead you through her uniquely practical, transformative, Grace Process for becoming your most authentic, heart-centered self, expanding your professional mastery and stepping into your destiny.

If you believe in the possibility of becoming a new Divine human, or if you are already experiencing yourself there, come play with other heart-aligned transformers to alchemise and expand the Divine being you are and are becoming, in a resonance field of all possibilities.

This retreat experience is right for you if you are:

  • A heart-centered transformational healer, teacher, coach, social entrepreneur or change-maker who is committed to your own healing and yearn for more heart expansion, meaning and impact in your life, your work and in our world.
  • Already on a spiritual path and begun healing your essential wounds
  • Willing to have fun and see the cosmic jokes as well as miracles and gifts that abound on our journey.
  • Open to surrendering to the mystery of your journey into the dream of what this life can be.
  • Experience a deep inner knowing that you have something powerful and purposeful to accomplish in this lifetime but you’ve only manifested a fraction of what you yearn for.
  • Feel stuck in unresolved wounds that fuel self-doubt and limit your beliefs and actions to realise your unique destiny.
  • Sometimes feel alone, disconnected and/or ashamed of wanting or having big dreams for yourself and our world.
  • Feel restless with yearning and urgency to have more meaning, fulfilment and greater impact.


Bio: Lori Leyden, PhD, MBA is an internationally known trauma healing professional, transformational speaker and mentor who courageously follows her heart, makes dreams become a reality and inspires others to do the same. With her unique brand of heart-centered humility, humor and grace, Dr. Leyden finds the miracles that are possible out of tragedy and has brought comfort, peace and hope to thousands from Rwanda to Sandy Hook, Connecticut and most recently with Australian Indigenous people and refugees and others around the world. Recently inducted into the Global Evolutionary Leaders Council, Lori serves trauma survivors as well as heart-centered healers, teachers, coaches, social entrepreneurs and change-makers who are committed to their own healing and yearn for more meaning and impact in their lives, their work and in our world.

Like candy for the soul. A sweet rush appealing to the little child within. Never before have I felt so safe to be so real, so vulnerable and so accepting of myself and others. I left a lighter person with less intention and a fuller heart.


This retreat is a truly amazing and transformational journey. Going into it I felt a bit scared and vulnerable but Lori created the safest and most nurturing environment allowing me to have a deeply profound healing experience. The Grace process is truly graceful. Everything about this weekend was beautiful and magical. I am so grateful I followed my heart and attended the weekend.


If you’re looking for love do a Spa for the Soul Retreat - life changing - life affirming - don’t hesitate, just do it! XOXOXOX


Dr Lori Leyden’s Grace Process is an exquisitely elegant formula for developing a deep understanding of one’s self. Lori leads everyone through the process with such insight, compassion and delicious humour. Attending Lori’s Spa for the Soul Retreat is one of the greatest gifts you could give yourself.


Lori Leyden is a magician of the heart. She works miracles. How does she do this? By opening the hearts of others. She is creating “conscious evolutionary heart leaders.” She goes to places of the most outrageous pain and suffering such as Rwanda. There she cultivates healing groups among people who have suffered deeply from violence. There she helps to heal the wounded and fearful and trains them in loving leadership. This is a symbol of what is needed on Earth. Her mentoring course: “Outrageous Grace: Activate the Alchemy of Your Heart to Heal Yourself, Others and Our World is actually THE most needed course that we all should take. Thank you Lori for your courage, brilliance and dynamic heart leadership!

Barbara Marx HubbardFuturist, Author & Public Speaker